Milepost 516
Back in February, I had mentioned to you that my wife Janet had been diagnosed with breast cancer. Since I realize that you come here to see what's on my mind about trains and model railroading, I've not mentioned much about that since then. But there have been a lot of things happening over the past eight months. If you will indulge me for a minute, I'll give you the quick story.
Janet had surgery on February 15 to remove the affected tissue. Follow-up tests suggested the necessity of both chemotherapy and radiation treatments. But as a part of the total testing, another growth was detected on her kidney. At the time, the doctors told us that it too was likely cancerous but that it could wait as the breast cancer was of the most immediate concern.
So every two weeks after recovering from the initial surgery, Janet underwent chemo. As with almost all people who do so, she was totally zapped between treatments. She would barely recover her strength from one then it was time for another one. She lost her hair... the whole nine yards. But she was determined and made it through without having to postpone any of the eight treatments. Those ended in the middle of June and she had a three-week break before she began radiation treatments.
The growth on her kidney was re-evaluated at this time and it was stable. It hadn't changed any nor grown. So it was decided that while it was still likely cancerous, they would wait until after radiation to address it.
While the radiation wasn't as draining as chemo, it too took its toll on her. For 33 consecutive days Monday thru Friday, she had the treatments. That made her tired and also gave her a burn similar to a sunburn that wasn't the most pleasant either but she still toughed it out and got every one of them w/o any delays. Oftentimes, patients will simply have to take a break due to the strains of the radiation regimen.
Radiation ended in mid August. Again, she got another "break" in treatments. But surgery loomed for the kidney. Finally, on Sept. 15, she underwent laparoscopic surgery at the University of Toledo Hospital and the growth along with a very small portion of her kidney was removed. The doctor told us that things went as well as he had expected and that there were no surprises. Even though the surgery was by the scope, it was major surgery internally and she was in the hospital for five days. I stayed with her the entire time as well as a couple more days when we returned home. I gradually went back to work half days then when she was feeling better, returned full time.
This past Wednesday, we had the follow-up appointment with the surgeon and he said that she was looking fine. But the best news of the day was that the growth was NOT cancerous! So she beat the odds and we were both thrilled. On top of that, a follow-up mammogram in September came back fine so things are looking better each day. That good news has translated into a burst of healing energy and she is more like her old self. Maybe now she can begin to really enjoy her retirement.
Back in February, I told you that early detection was essential for positive treatment and I again want to stress to you the importance of encouraging your loved ones to get checked on a regular basis. Please do not ignore this request. It has been an eight months that I would wish on no one but the sad fact is that one in eleven women will deal with breast cancer sometime in their life.
I'd like to close by thanking each and every one of you who sent positive, encouraging messages through these past eight months. Your thoughts and prayers have carried both of us and while we realize that we will never be totally out of the woods, that this will always be in the back of our minds, your support and encouragement has helped us tremendously. Again, thank you so very much.
Until next time...
dlm