In May 1989, I came back to Findlay after completing my first year of college at Xavier University. I needed a job for the summer, and was soon hired to work as a cashier at Meijer. The position required two weeks of training, and I started bright and early on a Monday morning by walking into a training class of a few dozen individuals...and I was the only male.
Normally, guys (especially 18-21 years old) will probably tell you that they would like being in that situation. However, if you ask people who know me, they will tell you I am not normal (as I am sure you have figured out). At that age, I was shy and had difficulty joking and opening up to others. I sat in the training room for two weeks, focusing on store policy and procedure instead of who was sitting in the room alongside me.
There were two women sitting in the room who were best friends. They went to high school together, they went to church together, and they had gone off to college together. Like myself, they were also looking for summer employment, and decided Meijer was as good a place as any to work. They wanted to be cashiers, and they wound up in the same class as me.
Now, I tell you all this because I did not go into this situation intending to find an individual to date...but someone else had another idea. It may sound like a Hollywood cliche, but upon seeing me for the first time, one of the friends turned to the other and said, "There's the man I am going to marry." And on January 1, 1993, her statement became a reality.
Why the little story? It is a little background on how I met the most important woman in my life...and today is her birthday. Theresa Ann (Rawlins) Knopf was born on July 14, and the pictures of her as a youngster confirm how cute she was. I think she matured and grew into being the most beautiful woman in the world (even though she thinks I need my eyes checked).
My wife has always been by my side, and I literally owe my life to her. We were dating, and one day she noticed a slight bump on my neck. I thought it was nothing, but at her insistence I went to see a doctor; I was informed a week later that I had cancer. After surgery, she rearranged her life to drive me to Medical College of Ohio every day for months of treatment. I do not want to get too graphic, but if a woman stays with you after you get 'sick' in her car (on more than one occasion), and after she sees you with hair and skin literally falling off of your body, all indications are she is a keeper.
Theresa has always supported me. When I decided to run for Republican Central Committee, she went out and got all the signatures I needed to get on the ballot. When I sent out my first mailing, she sat at our kitchen table licking and placing the stamps. When I lost, she held my hand and told me to look to the future. When I need to go to a government/political meeting, she has dinner ready when I get home. When I watch a debate or news show on TV, she sits there and offers observations that help me. When I have to sit down to write my blog, she understands I need some space and gives me the opportunity and time to get the job done.
I want you to know that my wife deserves a lot of the credit for the good in me. She keeps me centered and grounded, and is my reminder of what is important as we go through life together. For those of you who enjoy what I write, my wife has helped me get to this point in my life. I know this article will probably embarrass her, but that is fine with me; I have embarrassed her publicly before, and I will probably do it again (kids - this is fair warning).
Happy Birthday Gracie! I love you very much!!
-RSKnopfJr
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